Sunday, January 29, 2012

Update 29 January 2012


Aside from a couple of rainy days, this has been an extraordinarily pleasant week with blue skies and daytime temperatures around 80 degrees. Despite having grown up in such a climate, I keep finding myself in denial that it’s really January. It has been so nice to have the kids playing outside nearly every day. I’m realizing how much the weather of the day influences the weather in our home.


After a multitude of problems with his passports and travel visas, Kirk left for Europe on Tuesday. He spent Wednesday-Friday in Switzerland, the hub of Medtronic’s international business unit. On Saturday, he travelled to Kazakhstan (not many people can say that!). Apparently, while so many other countries are facing austerity measures and recession, Kazakhstan came into a monetary windfall that it needs to liquidate. (Did you know that governments can’t *save* money from year to year?!) So, Kazakhstan benevolently decided to pay for 800 of its diabetic citizens to receive insulin pumps. Enter Kirk and the Central Asia team, who must now adapt the country’s previous business model (50 pumps total) to the current status (800 new customers). Insulin pumps are an unusual medical device: when you put in a pacemaker or brain stint, the doctor does all the work. Conversely, with insulin pumps, all the work rests upon the patient. While diabetes pumps make life easier and healthier for diabetes patients, they’re still A LOT of work compared to what the rest of us deal with. For example, do you schedule every meal, count every carb, and calculate the insulin needed to digest your food? For the diabetes business unit, this all translates into a lot of housekeeping duties: you have to train doctors, you have to train patients, you have to put reps in the country, and you have to maintain a language-specific call center. In some respects, the company almost takes on a nursing role to the patients. So, Kirk and his colleagues are scrambling to set up these logistics. Complicating issues, about ½ of the doctors who were supposed to attend the conference in Kazahkstan had visa problems like Kirk, only theirs didn’t get resolved in time. Also, Kirk’s colleague and director on this project was just diagnosed with cancer,  and his “right-hand man” (a woman) is having a baby—all at the same time!


Compared to the drama in Kirk’s life, the rest of our happenings seem pretty dull. Carlos caught a cold, which stirred up his asthma. I kept him home on Friday and having been loading him up with Zyrtec, Benadryl, Triaminic, Mucinex, and two nebulizer medicines. He insisted upon playing in his LILA soccer game on Saturday, so I filled him up with medicine and his coach scheduled frequent rest periods for him. Carlos is amazingly talented at soccer and it will be interesting to watch him progress. 


On Tuesday, Arianna participated in a special class and play group for kids who sometimes struggle with social situations. She had a great time, but both our insurance and the state decided that they will not help pay for further therapy.    We are working with her school to raise students’ acceptance and tolerance of peers with “differences.”

On Friday, Arianna and her classmates presented their mission projects to the parents. It was fun to see the many ways that the kids created their mission models. One boy made his completely out of Legos! Later on Friday, Arie made a calendar/message board in art class. She really enjoys art but has decided to switch to a Lego class in February. 



This week, I applied for 13 teaching positions. They are all at “opportunity” schools—the only schools hiring right now.  I am kind of nervous about potentially getting hired by a school full of high-risk students, but, then again, maybe I could actually make a difference at that kind of school. For now, I have to play the waiting game and cross my fingers that someone wants to hire a new teacher.  

I did not some not-so-triumphant sewing this week. I’m sure you’ll get a laugh out of it, but I feel pretty stupid. As you know, Carlos is a short, wide boy. This means that I have to hem all of his pants up 3-4 inches. Well, this week, I hemmed up his suit pants (black and navy). Unfortunately, I was an overachiever and hemmed one leg of the black pants twice.    This is why we do not put Laurens and sewing machines together!

Finally, and this is not really *our* news, but little cousin Asher fractured his ankle this week. I blush to admit that I laughed when I found out because I remember Arianna fracturing her wrist at the same age. There is just something crazy and reckless about two-year-old beasties! I hope, however, that this does not translate into a new family tradition.


We hope that everyone is well, and we look forward to sharing Kirk’s stories with you when he returns later this week.


P.S. A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about my dad being in the hospital. But I left out a detail that I think is worth mentioning, since it is a funny indicator of our times. When I learned that my dad was in the hospital, I asked my mom if anyone else knew. Specifically, I wanted to let a few people in their ward know so my parents would have a local support network. My mom hadn't contacted anyone, so I offered to make the calls. But I later realized that I didn't have the phone numbers for any of my parents’ ward friends! I also didn’t have their email addresses. So, I went on facebook and messaged a few ward members from there. Within an hour or two, people began to respond and were ultimately able to get in touch with my parents. It’s a random little anecdote, which is why I originally didn't include it in my update, but it continues to make me giggle. What an interesting and quickly changing technological world we live in!

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Update 22 January 2012


This Monday, MLK Day, we went on our first excursion to the Getty Villa. It was modeled after an ancient Italian villa, now known as the Villa de Papiri, which was destroyed in Vesuvius’s famous eruption (79ad—the same eruption that destroyed Pompeii). From the beginning, it was built as an homage to and museum for classical antiquities. We were astounded by the sublime beauty of the villa as well as by its rich collection. It reminded me of my many happy visits to the Louvre and stirred some innate joy within me that no other art quite produces. I took many, many pictures, which are available in picasa: 


We were heartbroken to learn on Tuesday that Ann Lemon Rytting passed away. She is mother to Jenny, Liz, and Anton—Kirk’s stepsiblings. Despite never having smoked, she developed lung cancer a few years ago. It recently spread to her brain, and she spent this last month in a care facility with her parents. Although her death came earlier than any of us would have preferred, I am struck by the evidence of God’s hand in the past six months. He inspired Jenny to take a sabbatical from university teaching and gave her the strength and stamina to care for Ann throughout these autumn months. At the same time, Jenny and Liz cleaned out Ann’s home and readied it for sale. Amazingly, it sold in about a month, despite the recession. Jenny and Liz had just enough time to move Ann to Oregon, where she spent last month of her life (including Christmastime) with her parents and near her sister. So, while Ann’s passing feels too soon for the rest of us, it seems clear that God made everything happen at just the right time to ease the process. I’ve attached a photo of Ann (and Jenny) from May 2010 when she visited us in Valencia.


On Saturday, Kirk’s sister Kristina moved to the San Fernando Valley, not very far from us. The kids had a great time walking “Puppy” while the movers unloaded her belongings. Later that day, we took Kirk shopping to his favorite store, Brooks Brothers. He used some gift cards and birthday money to buy some new shirts for work. He was so excited (think, = Carlos in a chocolate shop). Kirk leaves for a business trip to Switzerland, Kazakhstan, and Russia on Tuesday, and he will be perfectly appareled.


Today, we celebrated Kirk’s actual birthday with balloons, sports-themed decorations (no surprise), home-grilled steaks, and a Baskin Robbins ice cream cake. Yum! He also opened presents and cards from many of you—much appreciation! Despite the teasing I heap upon him for his ISFP shortcomings, the kids and I feel so blessed to have a loving and dedicated husband/father. Happy birthday, Kirky-Pooh!


The rest of the week has been filled with the usual ups and downs. I was discouraged to discover that the substitute teaching application for Valencia schools includes 7 essay questions (you’re kidding me, right?). Kirk was plagued by travel visa problems caused by some dummies in Washington, D.C. The kids had their typical playground skiffs. But we also had a lot of happy moments and snuggles, so things are good overall. We’re on the uphill side of two lonely, Kirk-less weeks, but we’re so fortunate that he has a good job, and, after all, he has hardly traveled these past 7 months. I’m sure we’ll have some great pictures and stories to share when Kirk returns!  

Sunday, January 15, 2012

update 15 January 2012


It's been another nice week with everyone home together. The lemons are in season.


On Monday, I worked at the bishop's storehouse to "pick" and box grocery orders for poorer families. It was an interesting experience and made me grateful to have "enough" in my own life. (The last time that I worked at the storehouse was in Michigan during the apple harvesting season. Mmmm. My first taste of fresh Macintosh apples!)

We also learned on Monday that my dad was in the hospital with what the doctors ultimately diagnosed as an "unspecific cardiac event." He was there Sunday night through Tuesday evening, and that was the best conclusion they could make!    While we hope that his family doctor will ultimately figure out what's going on, we also hope that the symptoms will stop so my dad can feel better (mutually exclusive hopes?).  Either way, he's in our prayers... 

On Tuesday, Carlos complained of an upset stomach, so I kept him home from school. I soon realized that he was perfectly healthy but needed some one-on-one mommy time. We wrote his adoption story, built Legos, read books, and snuggled. He opened up about his worries at school and then surprised me with, "I'm getting married! Ella wants to marry me. She is sooo lucky!"    After discussing his upcoming wedding, he choreographed a dance to Daft Punk's "Tron" music. Such a funny guy!


On Friday, we hosted a little Gotcha Party for Carlos's kindergarten class. His teachers read some books about adoption--including the one we wrote--to the kids. Kirk and I brought brownies, fruit salad, a veggie tray, and water for the kids. One mom later contacted me to report that her daughter had told her all about Carlos's adoption in a very touching way. So, I think it was a valuable experience for everyone, not just Carlos. That evening, we celebrated as a family with a dinner at IHOP, where Carlos pigged out until his tummy could seriously hold nothing more. For his Gotcha present, we gave Carlos a fiber-optic Mohawk to complement his naturally stylish hair.  


On Saturday, Arianna's friend Faustine came over. Sad to say but true: we've been in CA for 2 1/2 years, and this was our first play date. It was cute to see the girls together and to see how excited Arianna was to host a friend. Later that evening, we rented the new "Smurfs" movie. Clearly, you don't expect a life-changing experience from such a movie, but I was pleasantly surprised by how well the Gargamel actor played his character.    Kirk was in Belgian cartoon heaven. 


Today, Kirk taught adult Sunday School and I taught RS again. The RS lesson was on loving your neighbor--a rather redundant topic but apparently one that I still need to hear.    This evening, we invited the missionaries over for dinner. One of the missionaries is artistic, and he shared some of his work with us. Arianna, our self-proclaimed artiste par excellence, was very impressed and reciprocated with her own artwork. LOL, she's a bit young to have a crush on a missionary, but there ya go.


Well, there's not much more to report. I'm still filling out online teaching applications, and Kirk is still curing the world of diabetes, one business strategy at a time.    But boring consistency isn't all bad, so we'll take it.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Carlos's Adoption Story







Once upon a time, there was a daddy, a mommy, and a little girl. 


This family had lots of love to share. They decided that they wanted to share their love with a little baby. They decided to adopt a baby.





At the same time, a cute baby boy was born far away. He was born in a beautiful country called Guatemala. 


He needed a family to take care of him. He needed a family to love him.





The daddy, the mommy, and the little girl could take care of the baby. They could love the baby. So, they adopted the baby. 


The baby became part of that family. The family loved the baby very much.





The baby grew. He learned to crawl. He learned to walk. He learned to talk.


Soon, a whole year had passed since the baby’s adoption. The family celebrated his adoption with a “Gotcha Party.”





The baby continued to grow. Soon, he was not a baby any more. He was a little boy. He went to school. He rode a bike. He could do many things.






Each year, the family remembered the special adoption day. Each year, they celebrated the adoption with a  “Gotcha Party.” 






the end









Sunday, January 8, 2012

Update 8 January 2012


This past week, we had the pleasure of hosting Marvin for a few days. On Monday, we hiked a nature trail in the Temescal Canyon Gateway Park. The waterfall at the end of the trail was disappointing, but the rest of the hike was pleasant, thanks to exceptionally beautiful weather (blue skies plus temperatures in the high 70s and low 80s all week!) That evening, we met at a local California Pizza Kitchen for Kristina’s 38th birthday dinner.


Kirk had to return to work on Tuesday, which gave Marvin a good excuse to visit a clinic in hopes of getting a diagnosis for his general malaise. He returned with a diagnosis of bacterial pink eye and a “probably bacterial” throat infection! We felt awful that he traveled when he was feeling so sick, but we were also impressed (flattered, really!) by his love and dedication on our behalf. The USPS creed sort of comes to mind: "Neither [flu] nor [pink eye] nor [throat infection] nor [Singapore-induced jet lag] stays [this Papa] from the swift completion of [his] appointed [visits]." 


In the meantime, Arianna and I finished her report on the Santa Barbara Mission. We were all grateful to have completed the mission model before the holidays and joked about probably being the only family finished with the whole project (model + report) before that evening. I really enjoyed learning about California’s history and early people with Arianna, but I am glad to have such a big assignment done.


Tuesday evening, Marvin kindly treated us to a delicious French dinner in honor of Kirk’s 36th birthday (upcoming on January 22nd). I fell in love with the beurre blanc sauce and plan to revisit it in the future.  J 


The kids returned to school on Wednesday, and Marvin accompanied us to ensure that the mission model arrived in one piece. Arianna’s model was the only one to feature a farm with fields and livestock (pigs, of course!). It was a treat to see the 4th graders arriving with their masterpieces, and I look forward to attending their presentations to the parents.


Marvin returned to Indiana on Wednesday with strict instructions from me to NOT get out of his bathrobe for three days. Hopefully now he will get the rest he needs to recover from his various sicknesses. 


The rest of the school week was fairly uneventful, and I was grateful for a half week to ease us back into the schedule. Yesterday, we worked on some projects around the house in the morning and then visited Disneyland in the evening. It was fun to see the park lit up for Christmas for the last time of the season, and we enjoyed a particularly wonderful fireworks display. P.S. - Disney contacted me for a survey because we are annual pass holders; apparently the Peter Pan ride is up for review.



This coming week is Carlos's "Gotcha Day" (January 14th). I just can't put into words how much we love him, how much he blesses us, and how grateful I am to his birth mom. Please take a moment this week to write Carlos a message or draw him a picture that he can keep in his scrapbook. Thank you for making the effort to help him feel loved and appreciated.